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Israeli-Palestinian Relations: Confessions from an Israeli Settler
January Report 2004

from our correspondent
Hannah (a Jewish settler in Samaria)

 
I admit that my take on Israel's relations with our Palestinian neighbours has been shaped by what I've heard from the Palestinians themselves. I mean "heard" across my dining table, over a cup of Turkish coffee.

Yes, that is my first confession: I am an Israeli settler with Palestinian friends.

Why is this a "confession", rather than proof of the right to speak about Israeli-Palestinian issues? Actually, it would be considered an asset - if only I were firmly on the "liberal" side of the issue. Just think how many interviews you've seen with peace activists or foreign visitors who have Palestinian friends. No one seems nearly as interested in hearing Jewish settlers talk about their Palestinian friends - people living side by side, every day, only a few kilometers apart.

If your response is: "There aren't any friendships between Jewish settlers and their Palestinian neighbours..." it just proves my point. If the media aren't interested, then it doesn't exist.

I guess that brings me to my second confession: Friendships between Jewish settlers and Palestinian villagers thriving in the midst of the violence and hatred are just not "newsworthy".

The global folks are not eager to show the other reality - Jewish settlers and Palestinians living together in peaceful coexistence, and have been for years. Much less are they eager to ask why some are able to, while others are not.

Therefore, Confession Three: Not only are these Palestinians welcome in my house, but I listen closely to what they have to say, because they have no one else who is willing to tell their story abroad. They dare not speak to foreign journalists in their villages, where neighbours have accused one another of "collaborating with Israel" over far smaller offenses than being politically incorrect. (Like the man they told us about, who was jealous of his neighbor's new car and reported him to Fatah as a "collaborator", causing the car owner to be shot without trial or evidence.) My Palestinian neighbours sometimes speak their minds to Israeli journalists, under first names only, with no hint of their location. But the resulting reports stay strictly local, ignored by foreign news outlets.

So what do these Palestinians talk about while drinking my coffee? Everyday things we have in common (in Hebrew, our common language). Things like difficulties in making ends meet, a sick child, the weather and its effect on our gardens. We never talked politics, until Palestinian terror attacks became one of those everyday things.

I'll never forget one day in 1996, when our friend "M" happened to walk in with a gift of fresh pita bread from his wife. Regular programming on our TV had been halted: details of yet another terror attack were coming through. I felt awkward, not wanting to show my pain and anger (making my friend feel guilty) or to trigger a political argument (if he felt defensive). But "M" already had a strong opinion. Gesturing at the TV, he said: "It's the fault of your own government, you know." I braced myself for the familiar PLO rhetoric, inwardly resolving to preserve our friendship no matter what. I was not prepared for his next comment: "Yes, it is your fault -- none of this would be happening if you Israelis hadn't let Arafat and his thugs from Tunis come in and take over our villages!"

Then my friend from across the valley gave me a glimpse of the hell his people - my neighbours - were living in, under the heel of outsiders (Arafat was not "Palestinian" - he was born and raised in Cairo and never could hide his Egyptian accent). These outsiders' first acts had been to shut down independent Palestinian press, replace local leaders with their own clique, and undermine the clan-based authority system that ruled Palestinian society to manipulate the youth. "M" told me of creative solutions to the dilemma of trying to survive, while trying to shield their families. (The father meets armed Fatah "demonstrators" at the front door, who are demanding that he send his children out to be their rock-throwing human shields against IDF soldiers. He agrees with their cause, he says, but regrets that the children are not home just now. Meanwhile the mother quietly hustles the children out the back door.)

My friend expressed anger too - anger at the Israelis for never bothering to ask his people if they wanted the "thugs from Tunis" in the first place. I freely confess: It had never dawned on me in those days that the Palestinians did not, to the last individual, adore Yasser Arafat as their liberator. I too can be misled by selective media reportage. I did, however, remember picking up another clue from "Y", who worked in the commercial center of our settlement.

It was during the Oslo stage when Palestinian villages were being chosen for "Area A", totally under PA control. I innocently asked "Y" if his village, just visible in the distance, was going to be part of "Area A", expecting him to show joy at the prospect. He gave me a dark look and muttered, "Not if we can help it." An exodus had already begun there - Palestinian families were quietly relocating to a village right next to our settlement, betting on its chances of remaining under Israeli control. (It did, and over the next year it more than doubled in size.) It would be another five years before I realized how widespread this view was.

In 2001, the muktar from the respected Hamdan clan in the Bethlehem area startled the whole country when he unveiled a petition from East Jerusalem residents - insisting that they be allowed to vote whether they wanted PA rule or Israeli rule. Assassination attempts by Arafat's forces did not deter Zuhair Hamdan, or the 10,000 Palestinians who risked their lives to sign his petition. Yet to this day, their bid for the right of self-determination has received no attention at all from the UN, the major media outlets, or any "peace process" delegations. Apparently the "self-determination" of the Palestinian people is being determined by others... and no one outside of the Israeli or Jewish press wants you to be confused by what they really want. (One refreshing exception was Arab commentator Joseph Farrah at WorldNetDaily.com.

Because the media sources you rely on have made certain "policy" decisions, you simply don't hear from tens of thousands of Palestinians who prefer Israeli rule. And because you haven't heard their voices, or why they feel that way,

You may not be ready for my next confession: My closest friends among the Palestinians are those who have been tortured in jails. Not Israeli jails, from where so many Arab prisoners get press coverage and visits from human rights groups. These are the PA jails, where no outsiders are allowed. Their own citizens are held there without trial, tortured for months with barbaric cruelty, hidden away until money is extorted from their families. Their crimes? Officially, that catch-all known as "collaboration with Israel", usually embellished with something like "drug dealing". ("M" remarked sarcastically that with all the money he must be making as a drug dealer, he can't figure out why he is struggling to buy food for his family!) But the accusation thrown at my closest friends by their tormentors, behind closed prison doors, is the crime of leaving Islam to embrace Jesus as their Savior.

You see, Arabs are not free to "become" Christians in Muslim countries. Only Palestinians born into a Christian family can call themselves Palestinian Christians. Missionizing among Muslims, either by foreigners or by local believers, is a crime for both those who preach and those who listen. My formerly-Muslim Palestinian friends have paid an awesome price for the religious freedom we so take for granted. Even after being released from jail, several of them were forced by death threats to leave their families and seek asylum across the Green Line in pre-1967 Israel, or across the ocean in North America.

You might be wondering who, at the risk of life and safety, first brought the gospel to these special friends living in my area, and discipled them to the point where they could withstand persecution? It wasn't a Palestinian Christian. My Palestinian friends say that they are generally greeted with suspicion or avoided by Palestinian Christians. No, I must confess: It was a small band of Israeli settlers who believe in Jesus.

Years ago, when visits were easy between Palestinian villages and Jewish settlements, this group distributed Arabic Bibles, visited homes and held study groups. They brought practical help and spiritual food to the poor. They braved threats from Muslim clerics, and had to walk past Hamas posters promising their violent demise. They witnessed miraculous conversions - and miraculous testimonies of hatred for Jews that disappeared the moment Jesus saved them. They brought Israeli journalists to meet these new believers, and saw cynical reporters moved to tears by the simple faith of men who still bore scars from beatings and cigarette burns inflicted by PA jailors. And it was the believing Jewish settlers who sought (and received) cooperation from the IDF and foreign diplomats to help these persecuted brethren leave their villages for safer shores when necessary.

By the way, the reason I know so much about this is because: I too believe in Yeshua the Messiah. I am not only a neighbour to these evangelists and their Palestinian disciples, but part of a local spiritual family that has grown to include Jews, Christians and Muslims as equals before the Lord. It's the main reason why "M" feels at home in our home. Messiah's love has done what no "peace process" or "coexistence project" will ever do.

In the last 4-1/2 years of unrelenting violence, freedom of movement has become greatly restricted for both sides of our small spiritual family. Only a few Palestinian disciples have IDF permits to enter Israeli areas, while Israeli believers can no longer go anywhere near PA-held villages. The villagers who sought asylum in pre-1967 Israel are now attending a congregation in the Tel Aviv area (and as it so happens, their pastor is yet another Jewish settler....). For those still living in the villages, Bible studies must sometimes be conducted in a car pulled off the highway between settlement and village.

Speaking of the IDF and the last 4-plus years of terrorism, allow me one more confession: My Palestinian friends are grateful for the IDF operations in PA cities like Jenin and Nablus. It was during one of those military raids that our friend and brother "S" was set free, at a time when even his family didn't know his whereabouts. He was one of several hundred "political" prisoners being held in the Nablus jail. When the PA realized that the IDF was about to enter the city (our friend later told us), the PA police emptied the prison and ordered all the "collaborators" into an abandoned building, locking them in. They told the prisoners they expected the Israelis to bomb such buildings as part of their anti-terror operation. The resulting deaths would be used later to promote claims of a "massacre" perpetrated by the IDF.

Sure enough, within hours IDF bomb sappers approached the building, suspicious that it was booby-trapped like so many structures they have to enter when hunting down hidden terrorists. They were about to begin demolition when they heard cries for help inside. Still worried about a trap, they were debating what to do, when the desperate Palestinians managed to break a hole in the wall from inside and explain who they were. After spending several days to carefully establish the identity of each prisoner (and to give them food and medical attention, since they were neglected and malnourished), the Israeli soldiers sent them home.

Long afterward, I discovered that the son of an Israeli friend had participated in that Nablus operation, and he confirmed the story. Here again I must confess: this young man was double trouble... not just a despised IDF soldier who willingly served in PA territories, but still another Israeli who had grown up in a Jewish settlement! Consider the irony of a settler-soldier who had helped rescue 200 Palestinian prisoners, after their own fleeing leaders had cynically set them up to become more "victims of the occupation" that he represents.

Downplaying the heroic aspect, the soldier commented with a shrug that such incidents were a familiar part of IDF operations in PA cities. I was aware of this already. Similar stories of mercy had come out of the Jenin "massacre" as well, accompanied by that same matter-of-fact IDF shrug that said, "Hey, it's just part of what we do." I also knew that these powerful human-interest stories would probably not be seen beyond the borders of Israel. It would be against the "editorial policy" of most global TV producers to disturb their viewers with camera footage of a compassionate IDF.

Now for my final confession. One day last year, I shared what I had learned from my Palestinian friends with a self-avowed left-wing Israeli humanitarian. I was hoping to change his perception of settlers as "obstacles to peace" and oppressors of their Palestinian neighbours. I was also hoping to enlist his help as an educated human-rights supporter on behalf of these people who have been deprived of an international voice. I was in for a shock. As I described the various trials endured by my friends, he became visibly uncomfortable, then annoyed. Finally he demanded in resentment: "What do you want from me?! What Palestinians do to other Palestinians is not our responsibility! The only moral issue here is that Israel is ruling over another people. Once there is a Palestinian state, we can get on with our own lives. They can go ahead and kill one another for all I care, long as they leave us out of it!"

I confess, I had been naive about the motives a left-wing liberal might have for supporting a Palestinian state. But it suddenly made sense why a settler cared so much about Palestinian suffering, and this "human rights" advocate cared so little; why pro-Israel Palestinians were being ignored by the peace movements; why coexistence between Palestinians and settlers was being censored out of world media and left out of the "Road Maps". This attitude, "what Arabs do to each other doesn't concern us", is not an isolated case. I discovered that it characterises the Israeli Left. It seems to be widespread in the global Left too. Even among the "Palestinian Rights" advocates, questions about PA human rights abuses are either denied or blamed on an Israeli "occupation" that ended in the PA areas over a decade ago.

Funny thing... when voices are raised for Palestinian liberation from oppression and abuse by their own leaders, they seem to be coming from the wrong direction... You know - people branded as "right-wing extremists". Guess which side has been faithfully exposing Palestinian child abuse, in which thousands of toddlers are indoctrinated with a death wish? Why isn't it Amnesty International or "Peace Now"...? For an example, go to (if you dare) at the globally censored documentary clip, "Hatred From the Cradle" - http://www.kokhavivpublications.com/forum/kfor/kfor0011.html - and then ask yourself why no network agreed to air this 30-second alert, even as a paid announcement.

You have to wonder why the Israeli settlers - and the right-wing personalities who support them - have been relentlessly portrayed in the news as violent, callous fanatics with only contempt for Palestinians. Settlers are not necessarily saints, but neither are they demons. (Like every subgroup in the world, there are always a few that can be found to reinforce a nasty stereotype.) You have to wonder why my confessions seem to contradict everything ever publicised about us.

I'll tell you why: We settlers must be silenced and delegitimised, because we know too much. We remember the days when we and the Palestinians celebrated together at each other's weddings, shopped together in each other's stores, and - if you can believe it - enjoyed Israel's Independence Day fireworks together. We make a distinction between these neighbours and the terrorist gangs who now rule their streets by brute force. We care about the welfare of our Palestinian neighbours, because we have proven from experience that coexistence is possible. But in doing that, we have proven that there is no need for ethnic cleansing of all Jews from Arab areas.

Those who are bent on destroying us - even if it means destroying their own children - are the real "obstacles to peace", and we will never join the rest of the world in pretending otherwise, because unlike the rest of the world we live with the reality. Does that knowledge make the settlers dangerous people? Apparently so. What we have to say is dangerous to the spiritual forces that specialise in perverting the truth and sabotaging righteousness. Our battle is not with flesh and blood (Ephesians 6:12). Or even with media policies and political processes. The global media and the political processes are shaped by people who care for neither the Palestinian's quality of life nor Israel's God. They think that they decide world opinion, but they are only flesh and blood. Their script is being written by "spiritual wickedness in high places" - powers whose only agenda is to make the God of Israel into a liar. They are afraid the settler experiment just might succeed, because that would allow Israel to reclaim all the Biblical homeland, as God promised she would... and do it peacefully... and bring benefits to those neighbours willing to live with her, as God promised.

They cannot afford to let you imagine that Jewish settlers are even capable of peaceful coexistence with Arabs. Hence, the strategy of presenting an image of the "Israeli settler" that will make sure you never want to listen to them. The real tip-off of who designs this strategy is the strange insistence on portraying the settlers as callous, violent religious fanatics. Did you know that most Israeli settlers are not skullcapped, bearded orthodox Jews? The vast majority of settlers in the larger settlements are in fact secular. But the Jewish religion has to be associated with the "demon settler" image, in order to discredit the Jewish Bible as the source of all that "evil". (Think about it. Discrediting that Book couldn't possibly be relevant to profit-driven network CEOs who only care for ratings. It could only matter to entities who have personal hatred for the Author.) We Israeli settlers have the support of many Christians who believe that when God says His Covenants are "forever", He means it.

They understand the real nature of this war. We have the support of Israeli believers and Palestianian believers, who recognize that there is room in God's Land for both the Jews and the Palestinians, and that "separation" is not necessary where Messiah rules. They also understand who our real enemy is.

Whether we have your support will depend on how well informed you are about what is really going on in Israel, the Palestinian areas and - most importantly - the spiritual world.

Visit Israeli websites, and give equal time to the side you never seem to hear from on your news broadcasts. Compare BBC or CNN reports with a first-hand source like the Jerusalem Post on-line (http://www.jpost.com). Find out who the Israeli settlers are and what they are saying - go to http://www.IsraelNationalNews.com. Best of all, visit Israel and see what is going on for yourself.

Think more critically about what you are shown on your news networks. Learn to discern patterns of bias and make allowances for them. A good guide is: Bias - a CBS Insider Exposes How the Media Distort the News, by Bernard Goldberg (a New York Times bestseller).

Learn what your Bible says about Israel's disputed territories (for example, Ezekiel 36). Let it say what it has to say, without apology or editing. Do the things you read seem impossible to reconcile with what you see? Leave room for your God to do the impossible things He has promised. Either He is God of all you see, or He isn't God at all (you see?).

Pray that Israel will be convicted by those same Scriptures, and will repent and return to the Lord her God and to His ways. Pray that the Palestinians will soon enjoy the same freedoms that their Israeli neighbours have. Someday there will be Palestinian news sources that can tell the truth without fear of reprisal... and Palestinian evangelists who will be able to bring the Good News to both sides of the Green Line... triggering a spiritual revival like this world has never seen.

Who knows what will happen to Israeli-Palestinian relations then!

 

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